Every other day I read about the so called extreme right wing organizations issuing diktats against women wearing Noodle straps , pub culture or women drinking . I have 3 questions..
1) Is pub culture good or bad?
2) Why is there gender discrimination in drinking – is it ok for men to drink and not for women?
3) Can people take law into their own hands?
Partying is not a special right for any one. Everyone has right to party. You can’t chase people on roads and beat them to preserve culture.
India is the largest democracy in the world. We govern ourselves according to the will of a majority of people. If noodle straps or “pub culture” or women drinking is against our culture, there should be a civilized debate over it in a public forum. And if there are enough merits supporting the case that the pub culture is bad or that women drinking is bad or against our culture, it can be enacted into a law. This is the right way to approach cultural issue or any other issue. There is no place in our democracy for issuing diktats. Extremists and the so called “leaders” with an obviously misdirected and personal agenda are the Taliban of India and we should strongly reject their agenda and protest taking culture into their hands. They are not the upholders of our culture.
If drinking in a pub is OK for men, it should be OK for women too. A woman going to a pub for a drink should be able to handle herself without expecting protection from anyone. The ‘pub culture’ is a little hazy. If it means there shall be no restriction whatsoever on dress code and various other public behavior, it is wrong. There is a law against exhibitionism and indecent exposure – by both men and women. A person can’t violate this law claiming ‘fundamental freedom’. Freedom is not absolute. Anybody living in a civilized society is subject to norms of acceptable civilized behavior. If anybody has problems with it, let them have the law changed in a democratic way. Until then, obey the law of the land.
Governments have vote bank considerations and are not able to take action against any moral brigade. Why can’t these rulers see things from National interest angle? National interest must be supreme in the mind of every Indian.
Extremist leaders do not understand the meaning of freedom and culture and liberty. They are trying to propagate is orthodox culture. Culture is never static and changes with time. The culture we have today will not be there after 40 years and the culture that was there 60 years ago is not there today. In my grandfather’s days none of the men used to wear trousers and wore lungis or dhotis. I wonder why these culture preserving extremists wear trousers! How can you preserver something that is meant to change.
Extremist leaders have a serious lack of maturity. They do not realize how they get their salaries or how they earn their money. Today for any person money comes from ECONOMY and economy is a result of global commerce , to be successful in global commerce in a long term you need to have meaningful innovation , to have solid innovation you need to have free culture , free culture is the way. You restrict the culture you kill the progress.
There is a famous saying ‘A common man believes in religion , a wise man calls it false , a politician call is useful. Religion is opium for masses and these guys have had an over dose of it.’
I am sure after 3 to 4 generations when all these old-traditional people will die their natural deaths, we will see a new free India
Image Credit: Liberal Mind
Similar Posts:
- The Maid In India Controversies
- Is India Failing as a Civilized Society?
- Professional Code Of Conduct -A Must For Indian Politicians
- India-A Land Of Compulsions?
- Terror Over But Is It?
Popularity: 31%





(2 votes, average: 4.00 out of 5)




February 26th, 2009 at 11:47 am
It is interesting Article, discussion about this should more social than political. I have a very simple question to ask from people about equal right in partying, dressing style and drinking etc. Would you like some ladies of your family to be like one of those girls? I am very simple girl, like simplicity a lot and I have talked to many phirangi guy about their first wife who was typical phirangi kind means, partying kind, drinking etc. Later, they got married to some asian girl who don't like to drink, who takes care of the house, Who converts four walls into home.
Shop exclusively at rediff.com
February 26th, 2009 at 12:39 pm
Good perspective, but I beg to differ. My two cents here
a) First of all, a few firang doesn't represent the whole lot.
b) Who said drinking, partying is considered bad. It is a certain way of lifestyle and should be respected for whatever reasons…everyone has an equal right ..to each one's own.
c) I ask those firangi friends of yours – “You left your first wife purely for the reason that they were drinking, partying ?…If you knew before, why did you marry, in the first place?”…I think there would be more to it than what meets the eye…for all you know, it could be the firangi's fault and the girls were sober..
d) It is an article about the rights of a woman…..those who were responsible for Mangalore incident and the Valentine hullabaloo…were showing double standards of the highest degree…
e) Lastly, you might be a simple girl..there are a million others who want to have a good time…why restrict.?
Hope you change your mindset…anyways, nothing personal…
Book Cheap Flights
January 21st, 2010 at 5:38 pm
Of late moral policing in our country seems to be reaching greater heights. Whether men or women the right to drink or party is equal. No bunch of individual has any right to enforce some outdated way of thinking and this must be nipped in the bud or else sooner these guys may land up at our doorsteps.
Let a better career find you.Log on to Shine.com